From lobola negotiations to wedding responsibilities, gender roles in Zimbabwean weddings remain deeply ingrained. But are they fair to both brides and grooms?
Expectations for Brides
Many Zimbabwean brides are expected to be respectful, modest, and take on traditional wifely duties even before the wedding. They must also adhere to certain cultural and family expectations.
The Groom’s Burden
Grooms, on the other hand, are expected to prove their financial capability—paying lobola, funding the wedding, and providing for their future family. The pressure to show success can be overwhelming.
Shifting Gender Norms
Some couples are challenging traditional roles by splitting wedding costs or redefining expectations. More women are contributing financially, and men are becoming more involved in planning and emotional aspects of marriage.
Conclusion
Are gender roles in Zimbabwean weddings outdated, or do they still serve a purpose? Should there be a balance? Let’s debate.
Final article in the series: Destination Weddings vs. Home Celebrations: What’s Best for Zimbabwean Couples?